Post by carolinem on Apr 28, 2007 4:33:37 GMT -5
Reverend says killer was remorseful
The Rev. Neil Kookoothe, James Filiaggi's spiritual adviser, said
yesterday it was more trying for him to speak with his friend Monday, knowing he was going to die, than to watch the lethal injection Tuesday morning.
Filiaggi, 41, was executed for shooting to death his ex-wife, Lisa Huff Filiaggi on Jan. 24, 1994. Kookoothe along with Filiaggi's friends, Zoltan Krompecher, Danny Rocco and Cindy Hayes, witnessed the execution on his behalf.
''It was more difficult to say goodbye when he was still alive,''
Kookoothe said. ''It was surreal.''
Filiaggi will be cremated to honor his wish, said Kookoothe, pastor of the Church of St. Clarence in North Olmsted. Filiaggi's funeral service is planned for Saturday morning. His family is keeping the details of the funeral and services private, Kookoothe said.
Filiaggi's parents and other family members have been doing extremely well considering the circumstances, Kookoothe said, and it was less burdensome for them because he had accepted his fate.
''Jim went into that with a great deal of courage,'' he said. ''Jim
paid the debt that society required of him.''
After the lethal injection procedure Tuesday, Kookoothe said he prayed with Filiaggi's family and friends and read a passage from scripture.
''The support of family and friends was tremendous,'' Kookoothe said. ''Jim would have been proud of us.''
Ellen Jane Harris, Lisa Huff Filiaggi's mother, said Tuesday that
Filiaggi has never shown remorse for killing her daughter. But Kookoothe said he wants people to know that Filiaggi was and has been sorry for killing his ex-wife.
Filiaggi thought every day about what he did, Kookoothe said.
He did not apologize or mention his ex-wife in his final statement.
''To say he was never remorseful, I know personally that's not the case,'' Kookoothe said. ''He was very remorseful. He always admitted he made a mistake. Everybody has tried to paint him as a monster. I knew him as a good man.''
Harris said Tuesday that the bad things Filiaggi had done in his life overshadowed the good. Lisa Filiaggi divorced him because she did not want her daughters to grow up in an unhealthy environment, she said.
Kookoothe, who was ordained in 1995, met the FIliaggi's in 1993 during his internship at St. Jude Church, 590 Poplar St., Elyria.
He got involved speaking out against the death penalty in 1996 and has protested all but four or five executions since 1999, he said.
''Somebody asked me to write to a death row inmate,'' Kookoothe said. ''That's how it all started.''
Tuesday was the 1st time he witnessed an execution and it solidified his position on the issue, he said.
Catholic teachings are strongly against capital punishment, he said, adding that the death penalty is evil. Ohio Gov. Ted Strickland and others who made decisions allowing Filiaggi's execution to go forward will have to answer to God, Kookoothe said.
''It solves nothing,'' he said. ''Nobody walked out of there a winner (Tuesday).''
(source: The Morning Journal)
The Rev. Neil Kookoothe, James Filiaggi's spiritual adviser, said
yesterday it was more trying for him to speak with his friend Monday, knowing he was going to die, than to watch the lethal injection Tuesday morning.
Filiaggi, 41, was executed for shooting to death his ex-wife, Lisa Huff Filiaggi on Jan. 24, 1994. Kookoothe along with Filiaggi's friends, Zoltan Krompecher, Danny Rocco and Cindy Hayes, witnessed the execution on his behalf.
''It was more difficult to say goodbye when he was still alive,''
Kookoothe said. ''It was surreal.''
Filiaggi will be cremated to honor his wish, said Kookoothe, pastor of the Church of St. Clarence in North Olmsted. Filiaggi's funeral service is planned for Saturday morning. His family is keeping the details of the funeral and services private, Kookoothe said.
Filiaggi's parents and other family members have been doing extremely well considering the circumstances, Kookoothe said, and it was less burdensome for them because he had accepted his fate.
''Jim went into that with a great deal of courage,'' he said. ''Jim
paid the debt that society required of him.''
After the lethal injection procedure Tuesday, Kookoothe said he prayed with Filiaggi's family and friends and read a passage from scripture.
''The support of family and friends was tremendous,'' Kookoothe said. ''Jim would have been proud of us.''
Ellen Jane Harris, Lisa Huff Filiaggi's mother, said Tuesday that
Filiaggi has never shown remorse for killing her daughter. But Kookoothe said he wants people to know that Filiaggi was and has been sorry for killing his ex-wife.
Filiaggi thought every day about what he did, Kookoothe said.
He did not apologize or mention his ex-wife in his final statement.
''To say he was never remorseful, I know personally that's not the case,'' Kookoothe said. ''He was very remorseful. He always admitted he made a mistake. Everybody has tried to paint him as a monster. I knew him as a good man.''
Harris said Tuesday that the bad things Filiaggi had done in his life overshadowed the good. Lisa Filiaggi divorced him because she did not want her daughters to grow up in an unhealthy environment, she said.
Kookoothe, who was ordained in 1995, met the FIliaggi's in 1993 during his internship at St. Jude Church, 590 Poplar St., Elyria.
He got involved speaking out against the death penalty in 1996 and has protested all but four or five executions since 1999, he said.
''Somebody asked me to write to a death row inmate,'' Kookoothe said. ''That's how it all started.''
Tuesday was the 1st time he witnessed an execution and it solidified his position on the issue, he said.
Catholic teachings are strongly against capital punishment, he said, adding that the death penalty is evil. Ohio Gov. Ted Strickland and others who made decisions allowing Filiaggi's execution to go forward will have to answer to God, Kookoothe said.
''It solves nothing,'' he said. ''Nobody walked out of there a winner (Tuesday).''
(source: The Morning Journal)